Let's Gossip - Part 2

Let’s Gossip – Part 2

Thank you for your interest!

Last we spoke about, how it is important to have a open, expansive dialogue with the person you are cursing under your breath.

Would love to know if any of you actually did that.

The next part is - Don’t loose focus.

Apart from the fact, that when we don't have a dialogue it could result into gossip, sometimes when we are having the talk we loose focus, basically the purpose or the desired result. We get lost and stuck up in the ego battle.

I myself had a similar experience. I wanted to clear the air with a relative, however I was constantly getting stuck, in my story about how she did me wrong. In my mind I had already planned what I must say, how it should be said, and how I have to get justice.

Really? Justice?

In any relationship, in any conversation, when you are trying to be right and trying to prove the opponent wrong, you will never get the desired result. You have to let go of your barriers, put aside the ego and arrogance and speak from the space of creation.

Focus on the result, the outcome you want, not on the war for justice.

And when you are fighting someone how much will you receive? And how much are you fighting yourself at that moment?

No body is the winner in the end.

Next time ask yourself

Am I trying to win a battle here?

How much am I fighting the world? or this person?

Stop fighting! and focus, because if you love fighting, the universe will give you more to fight for, and if you focus on the result you will create that.

Have a super time creating!

BE YOU - BE TRUE

~Storyteller- Aarti Asrani